LOVE IS.....
Had a nice, sweet surprise from my 2 girlfriends yesterday.... actually, not surprise oredi lah... they soooo secretive... i know for sure got something up their sleeves!!.. hahahaha..... niways, thanks girls!!... for the mani/pedi gift!... hehehehehee...... :D
A pretty interesting and stimulating conversation followed or rather, haunted Pei for the rest of the nite - from Rice Table to coffee shop at AMK!... hahahahhaa.... LOVE..... i think, to love and be loved is such a blessed feeling.... of course, one may have reservations in the beginning of a relationship.... a transitional period, i'd call it... to accept someone else share a part of your life, trusting, getting to know, and nurturing that thing call LOVE, for one another.... it is sweet - in the beginning - but it'll fizzle if nothing's being done to help keep the flame alive....
One is worried that she would go into a relationship meeting jerks and be heart-broken. We say - Don't put all your eggs in one basket!
One is worried that she'd fall into the "norm" category of study, work, stable - get married, have kids. We say - You never know you'd fall into this, if you haven't even try it!
One is worried that she'd never find THE ONE. We say - you'll never get to find THE ONE if you have not even tried!
But love is a funny thing.... it comes when it's not called for... and it leaves without you realising it as well.... but it definitely takes two hearts to make LOVE work in a relationship!.... and I find it darn interesting how one can go into marriage without knowing the other?.... it's just like old times - my grandparents times.... I've got nothing against it... in fact, i think it IS romantic!.... plus, you'd definitely get blessings from both parents and THAT is the most important thing before one goes into marriage.. but there's this nagging feeling - the what ifs issue!....
- What if he's NOT what he seemed to be?
- What if his ideals are not mine?
- What if he don't brush his teeth first thing in the morning?
- What if he has a very hairy chest and back?
- What if he's not romantic enough?
What if...... so many WHAT IFs to answer.... it's scary to find out the "negatives" after marriage.... but then again, you start on a clean slate - no histories to haunt you, no "kenapa dulu sblum kawen, you camnie? sekarang you camnie?".... but i don't think i can do this and that's made my friend, one of the bravest woman i know who is doing this... AND i also know, for sure, she'll make a good wife.... coz she DOES want to work on that LOVE... wanting to come home without worries of work and juz have a nice, chatty time with hubby... aaaaaaaaah......
I dunno why i'm rambling abt LOVE this early in the morning... yesterday's conversation has rubbed on me!..... so niways, my dear, wonderful, single friend.... you can't wait for LOVE come knocking on your door!...you can't pin hope sooooo high coz THE ONE will never be like the one on your handphone! *tsk! tsk!*.... but of course, we're not forcing you.. we're juz nudging you to take that step and experience the men that Singapore has to offer (hah!).... any takers?....
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